creating a connected, calm life when the chaos is real; getting out of distraction and into alignment, with Lane Kennedy
Episode 85 brenda zane Episode 85 brenda zane

creating a connected, calm life when the chaos is real; getting out of distraction and into alignment, with Lane Kennedy

If you use words like, "chaotic, busy, stressed out, or anxious" to describe yourself or your life, this is your episode. Lane Kennedy is known as a modern-day “calm maker” and shares her experiences of working with busy, stressed-out women, talks about her own journey out of addiction to alcohol, and offers some sound and achievable suggestions for us to try when life gets overwhelming and we feel like we're losing it.

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things to do while your child is in treatment, for the first or 20th time, with Brenda Zane
Episode 82 brenda zane Episode 82 brenda zane

things to do while your child is in treatment, for the first or 20th time, with Brenda Zane

It's a really common question parents have, "my son/daughter just went to treatment...now what?"If this is a place you find yourself, this episode will give you some assurance, guidance, and thoughts about what to do during this time of change. There can be so many mixed emotions from relief to sadness and even guilt...whether it's the first time your child is in treatment, or even if you've been down the treatment road many times.

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what does it mean to be “in recovery?” why it's confusing for parents and what we should focus on to help our kids make positive change, with Brenda Zane
Episode 80 brenda zane Episode 80 brenda zane

what does it mean to be “in recovery?” why it's confusing for parents and what we should focus on to help our kids make positive change, with Brenda Zane

In honor of September being National Recovery Month, I'm sharing an episode all about the confusing topic of "recovery." Does it mean total abstinence from all drugs and alcohol, forever? Are there “flavors” of recovery? If you're a parent or love someone who's working on overcoming addiction and you're confused about what recovery actually is or isn't - this is your episode.

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self-Compassion, laziness, or self-sabotage? being the right kind of good to yourself when your child struggles with drugs or alcohol, with Brenda Zane
Episode 77 brenda zane Episode 77 brenda zane

self-Compassion, laziness, or self-sabotage? being the right kind of good to yourself when your child struggles with drugs or alcohol, with Brenda Zane

If you're working on being a little more self-compassionate and practicing self-care, there may be times when you ask yourself, "am I just being lazy?" You might also find there are times when your so-called self-compassion might feel more like self-sabotage. SO confusing. You end up feeling guilty for not feeling guilty, or vice versa. This snack-sized episode will break down what self-compassion actually is, what it isn't, and importantly, how to tell the difference between healthy self-compassion and laziness or self-sabotage.

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unapologetic, radical self-care to make life better when your child is misusing drugs or alcohol; a lighter episode, with Brenda Zane
Episode 71 brenda zane Episode 71 brenda zane

unapologetic, radical self-care to make life better when your child is misusing drugs or alcohol; a lighter episode, with Brenda Zane

This is a lighter-than-usual episode to get you thinking about ways you can apply radical self-care and take control of events, people and things that cause friction in your life. If you have a child who's misusing substances, you probably spend too little time on yourself and have more than enough friction, so now's the time to change all that.

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when your sibling has substance use issues; finding sanity and practicing self-care, with Tina Jayes
Episode 4 brenda zane Episode 4 brenda zane

when your sibling has substance use issues; finding sanity and practicing self-care, with Tina Jayes

I think one of the most important things is you have to talk about these things as much as you can, whether it's to a therapist, whether it's to each other. I mean, when you carry this stuff around, it just is a big heavy burden and you don't even know what it is. But if it was happening to my family now, I would hope to talk to the siblings and give them some information and give them coping tools because that would have been really helpful instead of acting like nothing was happening.

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