a battle-tested dad shares why the support of other men is critical, not optional if your child misuses drugs or alcohol, with Bill Guy
Episode 137 brenda zane Episode 137 brenda zane

a battle-tested dad shares why the support of other men is critical, not optional if your child misuses drugs or alcohol, with Bill Guy

In this episode, you’ll meet Bill Guy, who is leading the new tribe of courageous men in the Woods community for dads. He’s been in your shoes, and he tragically lost a son to an overdose. Bill discovered resources like CRAFT through the book Beyond Addiction and was blown away by the way it changed his relationship with his son, even in his last days. 

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finding ways to reduce your suffering when parenting a child misusing or addicted to drugs or alcohol, with Brenda Zane
Episode 109 brenda zane Episode 109 brenda zane

finding ways to reduce your suffering when parenting a child misusing or addicted to drugs or alcohol, with Brenda Zane

The emotional distress a parent feels when their child is struggling with or addicted to drugs or alcohol is incomprehensible to the average person. Through the lens of the second arrow principal, I share ways that parents can minimize their suffering, anxiety, emotional anguish and isolation while their child is actively engaged in misusing substances, or in the early and sometimes fragile days of recovery.

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9 dangerous and negative thought patterns, and what to do instead, for parents with kids misusing drugs or alcohol, with Brenda Zane
Episode 106 brenda zane Episode 106 brenda zane

9 dangerous and negative thought patterns, and what to do instead, for parents with kids misusing drugs or alcohol, with Brenda Zane

In this episode I cover nine of the most common unhelpful and unhealthy thinking patterns parents fall into and talk about ways to shift those to a more productive place. If you tend to catastrophize, judge, doubt, criticize or ruminate about your life or your child's life, this is your episode. You'll walk away being more aware of how to recognize these unhealthy patterns and learn ways to change your thinking.

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using rituals to withstand distress, build resilience and counteract triggers when your child is misusing drugs or alcohol (and a little pep talk), with Brenda Zane
Episode 103 brenda zane Episode 103 brenda zane

using rituals to withstand distress, build resilience and counteract triggers when your child is misusing drugs or alcohol (and a little pep talk), with Brenda Zane

There's never a shortage of discomfort, distress, or triggers when you have a son or daughter who's misusing drugs or alcohol. You can live in a constant state of unrest and feel as if you have no control over anything. I share in this episode how parents can use simple rituals to withstand the varying levels of chaos, unpredictability, and frequent triggers in their day-to-day lives.

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coaching episode #4: positivity and a resilient spirit: key ingredients for the mom of an 18-year-old on the upswing from his opiate addiction
Episode 102 brenda zane Episode 102 brenda zane

coaching episode #4: positivity and a resilient spirit: key ingredients for the mom of an 18-year-old on the upswing from his opiate addiction

In this coaching/inspiration episode, you'll meet Cielo, a mom who's been through an unimaginable struggle with her son and who has one of the most positive and resilient spirits I've ever seen. You'll hear how she's navigated her son's addiction to opiates while raising two other kids, maintaining her marriage oh, and holding down two jobs. It's an episode that will lift you up if you're feeling like you can't keep going and was an absolute pleasure to record with this incredible woman.

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